Best thing to do is ignore idiots like this.
They thrive on stirring up trouble, and when no one bites they resort to personal attacks and childish rants - perfectly demonstrated by Handai on this thread.
You have to feel sorry for folk like him because he obviously has issues and likes to be the centre of attention, thus creating trouble for no reason whatsoever. Its very sad that his life is so unfulfilled that he feels the need to get his kicks from behaving like a complete numpty.
As for respect - i have the utmost respect for many people on here, but i am afraid that Handai needs to grow up, learn some manners, drag himself out of the gutter, wash his mouth out and experience the real world before he'll ever know what respect is.
Ignore him - its the best way.